Yesterday was very busy day for our "Beautiful Boy" Shawn. It is hard to believe that today that he is turning 4 years old at 1:06 pm CST. These past 4 years have flown by.
Of course every one of Shawn's birthday comes with a little bit of anticipation and nervousness for Rachel and I. Shawn has to do his annual follow up to make sure that his "miracle surgeries" can still be considered a success. Unfortunately, because of my new job, I was not able to go with Rachel and Shawn, so that added another level of tension for Rachel and I.
The check up started with an ultrasound where the put the gel, or as Shawn calls it, the "Goopy Goop" on his belly and back so they could look at his repaired urethra and area where his second kidney would have been. The ultrasound had several colors and Shawn love that. He said that his good kidney was on fire since it was red and orange.
After that, Shawn and Rachel went up to the urology department floor they checked in to see our new doctor. Since the surgeon that did Shawn's surgery, Dr. Lawrence Cisek, has moved to the University of Minnesota, all of his patients were transferred to the other doctors in the hospital. Because of the complications of Shawn's case, his new doctor is the Director of Surgery, Dr. Edmond Gonzales. We feel that we are in good hands. Check out the intro video of Dr. Gonzales:
I was able to FaceTime in when Dr. Gonzales came in to talk about Shawn, and I was really impressed on his ability to communicate with us on a level that we can understand and relate to. He also told us that Shawn's surgery is still classified as a success and he is very happy to see that the ultrasound did not identify any issues of concern. Of course, Rachel and I both had a sigh of relief after that statement, and our next check up will be on Shawn's 5th birthday.
I got home to find that Shawn's was trying to take a nap since he missed his afternoon nap yesterday, and I started to go to work on assembly of Shawn's "Big Boy" bed. The bed was originally mine when I was growing up, but the box spring and old mattress was left to be desired, so we purchased a new mattress that somehow came in a 2'x2'x2' box (Don't Ask Me How). I had stopped by the home improvement store to pick up some wood that I could use to build a platform box that would replace the box springs. I set up my table saw, mitre saw, compressor, and various nail guns (insert manly grunt here) and started to go to work when all of a sudden Shawn came out wiping his eyes and telling me, "Daddy, you woke me up with all that noise!"
After he figured out what I was doing, the sleepiness was exchanged with excitement, and he was ready to set up his new bed. He got out his plastic tools and started banging and screwing various places on the bed to help daddy, and before you know it, we were done. He jumped on it for the first time and I could barely see the the excitement on his face through the tears in my eyes.
As we started our nightly routine of reading a book and then singing, Shawn stopped me right before we started singing Beautiful Boy by John Lennon to say, "Daddy, I am don't want to sing that song anymore." I looked at him and said, "Why not?" He then went to tell me how that was a baby song and I should sing something else.
I knew that is was time and he was old enough to understand why we sing the song, so I decided to tell him this story:
Shawn was in the hospital about to have his first surgery. Even though he was just a baby and 10 days old, he knew that something was wrong. He would cry and cry in the hospital bed. Nothing could stop the crying. It was stressful on all of us. All of a Beautiful Boy. The words just seemed to be perfect:
sudden, I picked him up and started to sing the first song that popped in my head,
Close your eyes
Have no fear
The monster's gone
He's on the run and your daddy's here
Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful
Beautiful boy
Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful
Beautiful boy
Before you go to sleep
Say a little prayer
Every day in every way
It's getting better and better
Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful
Beautiful boy
Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful
Beautiful boy
Out on the ocean sailing away
I can hardly wait to see you come of age
But I guess, we'll both just have to be patient
'Cause it's a long way to go, a hard row to hoe
Yes, it's a long way to go but in the meantime
Before you cross the street
Take my hand
Life is what happens to you
While you're busy making other plans
Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful
Beautiful boy
Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful
Beautiful boy
Before you go to sleep
Say a little prayer
Every day in every way
It's getting better and better
Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful
Beautiful boy
Darling, darling, darling
Darling Sean
Written by: JOHN LENNON
As soon as I started singing those lyrics to Shawn in the hospital, he immediately stopped crying, look at me, then slowly closed his eyes and went to sleep. Since that day, I have sang that song to him every since until one day he decided that he wanted to sing it to me. Since I had my iPhone with me, I recorded it for the first time and he has been singing it to me every since:
After I finished telling him the story, Shawn looked at me and said, "I like that story Daddy. Can you sing me Beautiful Boy"? I looked at him and said, "With pleasure my "Beautiful Boy"!"
We are so happy to see his 4th birthday come around considering we were not sure he would live past 4 months. He is truly our miracle and I will always feel that I owe my life in some way to help others see as many of their children's birthdays as I can. Whether it be through the Shawn's Anomaly mission or my own personal mission to inspire others to exercise and make healthier choices, I feel honored to be live the life I do. Thank you all for your continued support in all the endeavors that I seem to take on. I hope I you don't feel pestered along the way.
Here are the results of today's Kona Inspired Views:
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Daily Views |
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Jacob Fuka_Kona Inspired |
29878 |
20275 |
2 |
Kona for the Kids |
20271 |
7113 |
3 |
Clarissa Alba |
17964 |
11791 |
4 |
For Mari |
13975 |
9485 |
5 |
Persistence, P.E. & Pushing Your Limits |
7482 |
4277 |
6 |
Failure Is Not An Option! |
5954 |
3021 |
7 |
A Grizzly Ironman |
4389 |
2794 |
8 |
Cancer-Baby-Bone Marrow |
3238 |
1670 |
9 |
The Quadfather (Nick Tieney) |
3142 |
1416 |
10 |
Starting to Tri-Special Olympics |
2163 |
822 |
11 |
Shawn's Ironman |
2037 |
1079 |
12 |
Mariya Hristo~Kona Inspired |
1239 |
573 |
13 |
Lisa Hallett wears blue at Kona |
1227 |
481 |
14 |
The iron will to Win |
991 |
529 |
15 |
Submarine Tri-Training |
845 |
408 |
Kona may not be in the plans this year, but I am not giving up. I have seen plenty of miracles in my life and a comeback or a "Wild Card" select would just be another one. Thank you again for your support and keep up the great work of voting daily and sharing www.sendshawnsironmantokona.com till midnight tomorrow night. Remember, if we don't make it, we still won. We helped educate others about birth defects, prevention, and our continued effort to provide HOPE!
Happy Birthday "Beautiful Boy"!